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Are Young People Acting Out Hardcore Porn Scenes? One Prof Thinks So

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Merrick Monroe
Porn and you.
Does watching porn make young people want to act it out -- in a bad way?

After all, modern adult video isn't exactly a romance novel. It can border on violence and it's certainly often degrading toward women. Role playing? Sure, but the role is almost always the same. You rarely see a guy on his knees. But there's plenty of choking and slapping.

New York University media studies professor Chyng Sun thinks that kind of imagery is having its effect on young people:

She's conducting a study to prove it. New York magazine:

She hypothesizes that people who watch a lot of porn eventually develop sexual desires that resemble porn sex, most of which is unrealistic and oftentimes sexist, racist, and violent. Even people who don't consume porn on a regular basis are affected because much of pornography has been mainstreamed and normalized.

Indeed, the concept of the "money shot" is now a punchline in mainstream media, a gang bang is when multiple reporters get on a big story, and the porn-pioneered hairless beauty is now one role model for young women.

But the imagery and people behind the words is real, and Sun thinks porn has changed the bedroom behavior of young America.

"I think there needs to be a lot of honest conversations around porn," she tells NY mag.

We'll keep our eye out for the results.

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kinkymalefeminist
kinkymalefeminist

Ugh, wall-of-text. I put paragraph breaks in that. Lemme try again...

RE: " never thought I'd be ashsamed"The problem here is the shame, not the desire. No act is inherently empowering or demeaning. If I ask a girl to beat me up and she obliges without actually *wanting* to do it, who is empowered? Who is demeaned? And as for the holiest of hole-ies -- anal -- if we are to accept that it is brutal or offensive then we are basically saying that all penetrative sex between gay men is degrading. And I for one am not willing to take that stance.This article is deeply problematic because it is predicated up several suppositions that I find to be wholly unfounded and ultimately contradictory if one takes them to their logical conclusion. It is NOT a given that rough sex is demeaning. There is a trust and intimacy possible in D/s relationships. Knowing one's partner and knowing one's limits are essential in this. Also, the existence and use of a safety word creates a more complex dynamic wherein it is the Submissive partner who is actually in control. Things that you might interpret as "painful" others might see as simply a very high level of sensation. A sensation that can be pleasurable. Furthermore, it is not a given that porn is demeaning specifically towards women. Surely it fetishizes and objectifies women, but does it not do the same for their male counterparts? If you look at typical porn film cinematography, you'll be forced to note that the male participant is almost wholly shoved off of the screen. He is an object more so than the woman if we analyze the footage without social information.And of course, this article completely ignores huge portions of the adult industry that don't engage in rough or violent sex. There are plenty of films featuring men being slapped around. Plenty of films featuring women in dominant roles. Plenty of films for every conceivable fetish. When it is a man who is "demeaned" it is shrugged off, but when it is a woman it suddenly becomes unforgivable? If we are to accept that the orgasms in porn are faked (and they are, usually poorly by the women and with the aid of, I shit you not, pina colada mix for the men), then can we not also understand that the other elements of the film are also acting? It is a film, and elaborate fantasy. You don't actually think that RDJ has a robotic heart that powers a super suit, do you?All of this said; Yes, D/s or other Kink behaviors very often come from a place of trauma. But to discount these emotions because they are reactions to trauma is foolish. Do you discount someone's sincere conversion to Catholicism because it occurred after they saw the horrors of war?

Kinkymalefeminist
Kinkymalefeminist

RE: " never thought I'd be ashsamed"The problem here is the shame, not the desire. No act is inherently empowering or demeaning. If I ask a girl to beat me up and she obliges without actually *wanting* to do it, who is empowered? Who is demeaned? And as for the holiest of hole-ies -- anal -- if we are to accept that it is brutal or offensive then we are basically saying that all penetrative sex between gay men is degrading. And I for one am not willing to take that stance.This article is deeply problematic because it is predicated up several suppositions that I find to be wholly unfounded and ultimately contradictory if one takes them to their logical conclusion. It is NOT a given that rough sex is demeaning. There is a trust and intimacy possible in D/s relationships. Knowing one's partner and knowing one's limits are essential in this. Also, the existence and use of a safety word creates a more complex dynamic wherein it is the Submissive partner who is actually in control. Things that you might interpret as "painful" others might see as simply a very high level of sensation. A sensation that can be pleasurable. Furthermore, it is not a given that porn is demeaning specifically towards women. Surely it fetishizes and objectifies women, but does it not do the same for their male counterparts? If you look at typical porn film cinematography, you'll be forced to note that the male participant is almost wholly shoved off of the screen. He is an object more so than the woman if we analyze the footage without social information.And of course, this article completely ignores huge portions of the adult industry that don't engage in rough or violent sex. There are plenty of films featuring men being slapped around. Plenty of films featuring women in dominant roles. Plenty of films for every conceivable fetish. When it is a man who is "demeaned" it is shrugged off, but when it is a woman it suddenly becomes unforgivable? If we are to accept that the orgasms in porn are faked (and they are, usually poorly by the women and with the aid of, I shit you not, pina colada mix for the men), then can we not also understand that the other elements of the film are also acting? It is a film, and elaborate fantasy. You don't actually think that RDJ has a robotic heart that powers a super suit, do you?All of this said; Yes, D/s or other Kink behaviors very often come from a place of trauma. But to discount these emotions because they are reactions to trauma is foolish. Do you discount someone's sincere conversion to Catholicism because it occurred after they saw the horrors of war?

never thought I'd be ashsamed
never thought I'd be ashsamed

That's it? That's all there is? Okay, well, keep your eye on this: Just yesterday, I came to the realization that porn has completely destroyed not only my relationship with my girlfriend, but also my ability to have what would be considered "normal" sex with any woman. Six years ago, the first time I saw a woman's mouth brutally fucked on camera, I was shocked and repulsed. Now, that's all I want to do. Now, the only kind of sex I can have is D/s type sex, which is SO NOT ME. I am a loving, caring, thoughtful and genuine person, raised by my mother (who I love and am close to) and almost all of my friends are women who respect my opinion and value my friendship, judgment and advice. But when it comes to the most intimate expression of love, I'm abusive and twisted and totally fucked up, which is not how I was as recently as five years ago.

I'm not a person who is or ever was religious. I have no hang-ups. I've always believed that guilt was a useless emotion, I've never been ashamed of any decisions I've ever made. There were many times in my 20's when I was a homeless crackhead who slept in dumspters and homeless shelters and shit and I'll talk openly about it with anybody. I've been strung out, I've gotten fired from shitloads of jobs, I've done all kinds of shit that most people would be embarrassed about. Not me. I'm proud of every decision I've ever made because I like who I am. Until yesterday, that is. If you think that porn isn't fucking up people's lives and fucking up people's relationships with one another, think again. THERE'S NOTHING TO KEEP YOUR EYE ON. Porn is destroying people's ability to relate to each other in a normal, loving, caring manner.

By the way, remember back in the 90's, when every girl and her mother was "bi-sexual"? Being "submissive" is the new bi-sexual. Every girl I meet now tells me she's submissive and to a degree, she's right. It's in our genetic make-up for the man to be dominant and the woman to be submissive, but not in the "porn sense" or whatever. Every girl I've fucked in the last five years has claimed that she's "submissive" when, in all actuality, they don't know a thing about it. You can thank porn for that.

This has to stop.

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