Josh Feinberg, College Student 'Upset About Grades,' Commits Suicide off Malibu Dam

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Malibu Times
Feinberg jumped from the Rindge Dam in Malibu.
A former Agoura High student named Joshua A. Feinberg, now 21, jumped 100 feet to his death off the Rindge Dam at Malibu Creek yesterday. The century-old structure is located about three miles inland from the Pacific Coast Highway.

Though sheriff's officials from the Malibu/Lost Hills station originally told City News Service that "another young person was rescued off a ledge about 5 p.m.," it appears the second person was a friend looking for Feinberg after receiving a suicide text.

Sgt. Vivian May tells Malibu Patch that "there was a text message to a friend and a note left in [Feinberg's] car. He was upset about his grades."

The Weekly has not yet confirmed which college or university Feinberg had been attending. Many of his Facebook friends attend schools in Santa Barbara and Moorpark, but that could just be because they're close in proximity to Agoura Hills, Feinberg's northeast L.A. County hometown.

According to R.I.P. notes posted to Twitter, family and friends held an immediate candlelight vigil last night, in honor of the college student.

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When commenters on Malibu Patch started debating over whether the suicide should be blamed on the victim's home life or societal pressure to do well in school, a reader named Kellie, identifying herself as a friend of Feinberg's, wrote the following:

"I grew up with Josh, have known him for 14 years of my life, and know the kind of person he was. I think it's a bit cold to point fingers, blame his parents or anyone else for that matter. Bottom line: we do not know the whole story, and probably never will. Is there anything wrong with simply stating: "What a tragedy, my heart goes out for his family and friends" and leaving it at that? Do we really need to touch base on the trials and tribulations of struggling college students in this generation? Yes, we all know how difficult college can be, the stress of succeeding in this day and age is one that no other generation has ever felt. We all know how hard it is to find jobs after school, even with degrees. We all know that a grade is just a grade, and there is more life left to go. We all know that suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem. We do not know the pain that he experienced, the hopelessness he felt, and what was constantly going through his head. I only ask that everyone be respectful during this time; the pain we're all feeling won't go away by using him as a mindless statistic."

Did you know Josh? Please share below.

Update: Another old friend named Nick Grodotzke says in a Tumblr tribute that Feinberg used to play basketball, and that he had a twin brother, Jeff. "His happy-go-lucky attitude spread all over anyone that came in contact with him," writes Grodotzke. "He respected everyone, loved to have fun, and was always happy."

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friend
friend

It's even sadder that he left behind a twin brother, they just turned 21. I can't imagine what he is going through and my heart goes out to him.

RF
RF

 I went with him in highschool, and graduated with him...I never had a class with him or talked to him but I see him at school, heard about him at school....My brother knows him and thats how I heard about his death....and I got so surprised =[. Im sorry :( I pray for ur soul.

Nicole Hamilton
Nicole Hamilton

Josh is an amazing son, brother, and friend. Never in my entire life have I met someone more selfless, funny, and loving. There was never a dull moment in his presence; he always had the biggest smile plastered on his face, and had the entire room smiling and laughing with him. We love him so much and he has made such a positive impact on our lives. Josh's personality, smile, and laugh are so infectious, and I can only hope to be as awesome as he is and to treat others as well as he did. I am so blessed to have known him for the time that I did. I can't stop smiling thinking of the amazing times we've shared. Josh, you truly are one of a kind and I am forever grateful for your friendship. <3 I love you!!

guest
guest

When is the funeral?

Jjfrisco
Jjfrisco

SBCC student Joshua A. Feinberg, 21, died unexpectedly on Tuesday, October 25 in Malibu.  In his honor, the college will host a flag-lowering ceremony on Thursday, November 3 at noon in front of the Luria Library The entire campus community is invited to attend.

 

Joshua was a current student who started his studies at the college in summer 2010.

friend
friend

I want to say Josh was an amazing person. He was that way because of his family. They are the most relaxed, loving, supportive parents anyone could have. Josh was 21 this was his choice not his parents, they are in terrible pain and full of guilt. Josh would hate the way people are fighting over where he went to school and who's fault this is. It is a terrible loss learn something from it.

Guest
Guest

Josh was one of the funniest, heartfelt guys. He is so beyond missed in our community, it has all of us reeling in shock. You should know that everyone has come out to say something positive about him and I only wish he could have seen how many people's lives he has affected. We are all wishing he was here, our wonderful Josh. Before you feel the need to write something negative realize there is MUCH more to the story than what is written. I want everyone to know he was a great person, classmate, brother and fraternity member. No words can describe the heaviness of his loss. Rest in Peace Josh.

Rkryspie
Rkryspie

This is a very funny joke. I expect Josh would enjoy it. Were any broken bones involved in this accident and when you fall and go poo poo do you fall faster than the poo poo?

Celia
Celia

Grades mean absolutely nothing in the BIG PICTURE. So many geniuses never graduated high school or they flunked out of high school or college. Kids, parents and these "so called" educators need to get a grip and some perspective. Sad.

Guest
Guest

Why don't you keep your oh so deep opinions to yourself, thanks.

CollegeStudent
CollegeStudent

I could tell you to shut up just because I think you're annoying in trying to silence others' opinions, but I won't because that would be hypocritical and against my philosophy. 

You may have known him, but that doesn't make you a censor. You may have failed to notice "Celia's" empathy at the end of her post. 

If you can't stand someone else's comments, then you should go to another website.

As far as the death is concerned, I send my condolences to the Feinberg family and those who were close to him. 21 too young to die. 

lorilei
lorilei

so did they recover his remains and where? does anyone know?? there was a report that a body found of Piuma and Las Virgines said to be him.....

guest
guest

He attended UC Santa Barbara and the candle light vigil was held by his fellow brothers of the Phi Sigma Kappa fraternity he was part of.

Motoxchiik1002
Motoxchiik1002

Why do you keep on making assumptions that are obviously not true.  Stop stating facts that you do not know are true.

Armychick1001
Armychick1001

he actually went to ucsb you ignorant girl. I'm not exactly positive as to what you are referring to when you say untrue facts. The candle light vigil happened.

guest
guest

He attended the university of california santa barbara, was involved the fraternity phi sig and has a twin brother here.. we will all miss him even those who never knew him.

guest
guest

If your saying he went to ucsb you obviously did not know him because he most definitely went to sbcc.

Colet Baxter
Colet Baxter

he attended santa barbara city college, not ucsb

One
One

Poo poo

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