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Queer Town: Human Rights Campaign's Shameless Spin

By Patrick Range McDonald, Wednesday, Nov. 5 2008 @ 8:21AM
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After spending several hours at the Music Box Theater in Hollywood last night, watching the voter totals for the passage or defeat of Proposition 8 fluctuate every few minutes, it finally became apparent by 12:30 a.m. that things weren't looking too good for gay marriage in California. Even though the race is still too close to call, the whole evening left a sour taste in my mouth...even more so during the drive home, when a radio news broadcaster almost cheerily announced that gay marriage bans went through in Arizona and Florida and Arkansas voters banned gays and lesbians from adopting kids. By that time, I was officially pissed off!

But then I arrived home to start work on my article about Prop. 8 and tried to cool down so I could write something smart and insightful. I checked my email, and the Human Rights Campaign hit me right between the eyes with this public relations non-sense:

Dear Patrick,

What a night.

The crowd is going wild here at HRC Election Headquarters. While many races have yet to be called, including ballot iniatitives (sic) in Arizona, Florida, Arkansas and California, I felt the need to tell you that tonight, we made history.

Because of you, because of everything you did, 2008 will forever be the Year We Won!

Historians will point to this election as a turning point in the long struggle for civil rights. Eight years of White House hostility toward LGBT Americans are finally over.

Here's what we know right now:

We will finally have an LGBT-friendly White House: President Barack Obama and Vice President Joe Biden.

Proposition 8 vote in California is still too close to call.

At this time, we helped elect new fair-minded allies in the Senate and in the House - including HRC endorsees Betsy Markey, Kay Hagan and cousins Tom and Mark Udall.

We can now pass critical LGBT equality measures like the Matthew Shepard Hate Crimes Act and begin unraveling the damage of the last eight years.

HRC and its members played a bigger role in 2008 than in any previous election. HRC launched a two-year, $7 million effort to get 5 million people out to vote for equality. We trained over 500 volunteers at 17 first-of-their-kind Camp Equality trainings and 25 more through the intensive 12-week Campaign College, and they went on to work on many tight races. One-third of our staff spread out across the country, providing thousands of hours of critical staff time to key campaigns. HRC raised more money for candidates than ever before and donated nearly $3.5 million to fight Proposition 8 in California. And there's more – watch this video to see how HRC turned your support into action.

Your efforts this year were without precedent. They've enabled HRC to play a role in dozens of today's victories. And with Obama in the oval office, we can now begin securing protections that LGBT Americans have been denied so long. We recognize the profound challenges facing our nation, and we will be patient and strategic in working with the new administration to secure those protections.

We are still waiting with anticipation for results from California's fight for marriage equality, where the race is still too close to call. We are also waiting on results for Arizona, Florida and Arkansas. Once the outcome is known in these states, as well as other key races, we will update you with the results.

Together, we've made a profound difference in 2008. I can't thank you enough – and I can't wait to keep working with you to continue the march towards equality in 2009 and beyond.

Warmly,

Joe Solmonese
President

I never got the update about Arizona, Florida, and Arkansas, but the cheerful guy on the radio had already filled me in.

What really annoys me, though, is this...I always thought--perhaps naively--the HRC was supposed to win gay rights. I didn't think it was set up primarily to win elections for Democrats.

So far, HRC hasn't won a single anti-gay marriage ballot measure, and there's been over 20 losses. A few years ago, Arizona voted one down, but a gay Republican named Steve May really ran that winning campaign. So what's the deal with the email?

To be honest, I think Solmonese was trying to spin the gay community away from last night's debacle for the movement, and, as a major player in that movement, he didn't want us looking at him or the HRC. Solmonese also wanted me to keep donating, which was asked of me at the very bottom of the email. It makes a thinking man start to wonder when enough is enough.

One thing is clear, though. The gay rights movement needs to take a serious look at itself. Gay activists, who I mostly admire, can't keep blaming evangelical Christians for every loss. It's like the Boston Red Sox blaming the New York Yankees for being too good all of those years and not doing anything about it. Someone in the front office needs to get fired, the line up needs to be shuffled, new players need to be brought in, and we need to start winning a few championships. Pronto!

Contact Patrick Range McDonald at pmcdonald@laweekly.com.


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Shukri says:

California voted to preserve traditional marriage in 2000 and now again in 2008. Why does the gay community continue to try to force people to adopt their stances?


(Note from Patrick Range McDonald: You know, Shukri, you are one of the least graceful winners I have ever heard from in my entire life. Do you really have to kick us gays when we're down like this? My goodness. You must be some kind of religious type? Have a little mercy on us for at least a day.)

Posted On: Wednesday, Nov. 5 2008 @ 10:04AM
Erik says:

I was dreading checking my email this morning for that very reason.

I went to bed last night, around 2, defeated, and saying to myself, "I'm going to wake up tomorrow with an email in my inbox with the HRC asking for money"

I think we put up a good fight, though, and we have definitely come further than back in 2000.

I still believe in the HRC though, they are all that is left for me to believe in. They have the money and the power to at least get awareness out. Hopefully we will get a victory soon, and when we do, it will have a domino effect. Hopefully.

Posted On: Wednesday, Nov. 5 2008 @ 10:12AM
John Abarca says:

Can it be that the position you are taking is wrong and THAT is why you lost? HRC is all about the politics , why are you so surprised.

Posted On: Wednesday, Nov. 5 2008 @ 10:22AM
Fritz Koenig says:

Yes.

Changing the leadership of gay organizations will not change the
results. When have you ever been invited to vote about the actions
of any of these non-profit groups that supposedly represent gay
people? When and where are the Board meetings held? Who appoints
the board members? Which of these organizations is an actual
membership organization with voting rights given to the membership?

The AutoClub is more democratic than most of the "gay" political
action groups.

For $5, my local office store will make a 3 x 5 foot copy of a
regular 8.5 x 11 inch sheet of paper. Where was the MSWORD Template
to download so I could print a cheap flyer for No on 8 as opposed to
paying $75 and waiting weeks for it to be delivered from the no on 8
site? When do these organizations ask me for anything other than a
vote and more money for THEM to spend and control?

Posted On: Wednesday, Nov. 5 2008 @ 10:37AM
Ezra Barany says:

To address Shukri's comment, one could just as easily ask "If the majority of Californians was against biracial marriage, should we ban it?" I recognize the idea that as a democracy, it is appropriate to follow the ideals of the majority. However, if the ideal is immoral (denying the right for women to vote, for example), then don't we have an obligation to rise above our ideals and do what is moral, not what is preferred?

But how do we know what is moral and what is not? It is appropriate to turn to the Bible for such guidance. However, there is nothing in the bible against same-sex marriage. And how well can we trust the Bible for credible guidance on what is moral and what is not? The Bible is filled with examples of polygamy, slavery, and even stoning to death those who break the Sabbath. The Bible is filled with wisdom, but is not the best source for defining morality.

An alternative is to look to the founding fathers of this nation and let them set the example of how to amend our constitution. There still, though, one sees the original constitution against women and African-American voting rights. Although there was discrimination in the original constitution, it was a document that presented great notions far ahead of its time. We must continue that course and rise above what is unjust, though it may feel uncomfortable to do so.

So how can we be certain banning same-sex marriage is wrong?

I recommend reflecting on what it means to be told that you may not get married to the one you love. It means you are subhuman, not good enough, not equal to others.

If I had been told by the state that I could not marry my wife because we were of different religions, I would understand that there may be concern, that being married to someone of a different religion is a challenge. Heck, marriage to someone of the opposite sex is challenging enough! But to not trust my choices, and to not let me take on that challenge is condescending and disrespectful.

Trust me to make my own choices on who I wish to marry, no matter what religion. And I will trust others to make their own choices of who to marry, no matter what gender.

Posted On: Wednesday, Nov. 5 2008 @ 11:04AM
Rick Howser says:

Gay Marriage will never sweep this country. You can be gay, but you will never be nationally acknowledged as a wed couple.

Posted On: Wednesday, Nov. 5 2008 @ 11:59AM
Beth Cardall Leehy says:

Mr. McDonald, your comments make sense to me. I too have supported HRC and worked locally on the No on 8 campaign, which by the way, as of 10:44 AM PST has not been decided.

Comments like those of "Shukri" posted 11/5/08 are all too common, and all too incorrect. It amazes me how many untrue assumptions can be included in two small sentences! I have tried to keep this short, but many inaccuracies require many rebuttals. I am offended by others trying to “force people to adopt their stances.”

I am afraid we have a lot of education to do:
1. "Traditional" marriage throughout history has often been other than one man and one woman.
2. Prop 8 does not "preserve traditional marriage" but deny civil rights to a group of people.
3. The "gay community" is not trying to convince anyone to “adopt” anything. If one does not want to be involved with another person, then don’t.
4. Civil marriage is different from religious rites is different from civil union. They all confer different rights, penalties and privileges – do the research!
5. The State cannot require any religious professional to perform rites. If a religious professional does not wish to conduct religious rites for non-heterosexuals, she or he may simply say “No;” no force involved.

Singing in faith and working for justice,
Beth Lynn Cardall Leehy: Mom, wife, daughter, aunt, g*dmother, g*dgrandmother, sister, friend, civil rights activist

Posted On: Wednesday, Nov. 5 2008 @ 12:24PM
Mike says:

Hey, Shukri. You could easily replace "gay" with "Christian" in that last sentence of yours.

Notice the difference in margins in 2000 and this year and you see where this is ultimately going. Enjoy your false feeling of superiority in the meantime. Byes!

Posted On: Wednesday, Nov. 5 2008 @ 1:27PM
brian says:

ummmm...
You shall love your neighbor as yourself.
What ever happened to that part of Christianity? Or isn't it included in the cliffnotes version??

Posted On: Wednesday, Nov. 5 2008 @ 5:36PM
David Shankbone says:

We have seen the enemy, and it is us. The problem is our community, not just our leaders. We have too many people who buy into the "I don't support gay marriage because I don't want to support the heterosexual institution" crap. The myopia in this logic is disheartening. I personally have never wanted to join the military, but I will march in the streets for the right of a gay person to do so.

Those of us who know these people--and we *all* know these people--don't do enough to sit them down and explain that such selfish "If I don't want it, I don't care if others want it" mentalities hurt all of us, and at the very least, a significant portion of our community.

Lastly, our leadership sucks (not everyone, but many of them). Which is why conglomerates of moneyed gays with intelligence are having to take matters into their own hands (read John Cloud's Time magazine piece on "The Cabinet").

We've become a community whose boring culture revolves around "kitsch", not caring, disco music, dancing, clothes, musicals, sex and drugs. In other words, if it's not "fun" then we don't want to waste the brain power on it.

I remember one guy on my Facebook posted that the debate between Obama and McCain was "boring as hell". Out of all the walks of life I am friends with, it's a gay person who complains about how not fun is the most important election of our lives.

That's my opinion, and that was the point behind my blog post about my interview with gay marriage founder Evan Wolfson. We're selfish. Although I have it on authority that she wishes her statement would just go away, Roseanne Barr pointed out essentially the exact same thing:

"Never once in my 54 years have I ever once heard a gay or lesbian person who's politically active say one thing about anything that was not about them. They don't care about minimum wage, they don't care about any other group other than their own self because you know, some people say being gay and lesbian is a totally narcissistic thing and sometimes I wonder. I've never heard any of them say anything except for 'accept me 'cause I'm gay.'"

Posted On: Wednesday, Nov. 5 2008 @ 6:35PM
Daniel Blatt says:

Look, the leadership of the "No on 8" campaign offered what I would call a West Hollywood/Hillcrest/San Francisco strategy, appealing to ideas which, by and large, resonate in liberal enclaves and not which resonate with socially moderate citizens who respect, but are not beholden to, certain social conservative ideas.

Yeah, they ran some good commercials. But, they didn't do enough to reach to skeptical suburban straight people. We need to get out of our gay people and learn to talk to the vast middle of America.

Posted On: Thursday, Nov. 6 2008 @ 9:10AM
David Ehrenstein says:

Last night's street protests warmed the cockles of my 61 year-old gay activist heart. The Kids are alright. HRC and the NLGTF are about as useful to the gay rights movement as Joe Lieberman is to the Democratic party.
86 them NOW!

OUT OF THE SUITES AND INTO THE STREETS!!!

Posted On: Thursday, Nov. 6 2008 @ 9:55AM
Colton says:

There is too much irony in the 2008 election.  How can a people make such great progress by electing the first African American President but relegate an entire section of its population to second-class citizenship.

Today I wake up and find myself separate and unequal. I do this on the same day many Americans feel equality for the first time. 

The discrimination was far reaching this election with two other states removing rights and one state going as far as to tear up families in order to punish same-sex couples by banning adoption rights for them.

This was not a vote about marriage.  This was a referendum on a particular group and the people have spoken.  We no longer are in the same class of citizenship as the rest of the country. We do not enjoy the same rights and protections.  We are separate and unequal.


On November 5, 2008, I woke up as a second-class citizen. 

Posted On: Thursday, Nov. 6 2008 @ 10:54AM
mark snyder says:

At QueerToday we have been protesting and exposing HRC for years. Please join us!

Posted On: Monday, Nov. 10 2008 @ 9:02PM

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