Erykah Badu Responds to D.O.C., Speaks On Their Private Life Together

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Erykah Badu is known foremost for her mesmerizing, cutting-edge R&B. I put her recent album New Amerykah Part Two (Return of the Ankh) in my top ten for last year, and it's just one of her many groundbreaking works.

But beyond her music she's probably best known as baby mama to the rap stars. She has procreated with hip-hop's best and brightest, and is raising at her Dallas home three kids: 13-year-old Seven, a boy whose pops is Andre 3000, 2-year-old Mars, her daughter with Jay Electronica, and 7-year-old girl Puma, whose dad is D.O.C. (Badu dated Common, but they don't have any kids together.)

I reported these details in my recent feature story on D.O.C., the legendary Dallas-native ghostwriter who has been summoned by Dr. Dre to help save Detox. The piece mainly focused on D.O.C.'s hip-hop career, the accident that robbed him of his voice, and his work with Dre. But it also explored D.O.C.'s relationship with Badu, the nature of which was somewhat ambiguous. He told me he lived with her part time, remained in love with her, and had an idea for a reality show to be filmed at her house.

"I keep telling Erykah we need to get this reality thing poppin' off," he said. "Maybe we'll get us a reality show, and at the end of it, we'll get married or something."

As noted by Dallas Observer music editor Pete Freedman, his comments seemed a bit naive. For one thing, Badu doesn't appear interested in settling down. For another, she's quite private about her personal life. In fact, I spent about a month trying to get her to talk about D.O.C. -- to confirm the things he was telling me -- but she declined. "Erykah doesn't usually talk about her private relationships with the fathers of her children," her manager Paul Levatino wrote me in an email.

Only, it turns out that's not always the case. After my story was published, Badu threw cold water on D.O.C.'s ideas for the wedding and the reality show, in the form of a statement released to Dallas Observer, our sister paper who reprinted the story.

Erykah Badu and The D.O.C. share parental responsibilities for their daughter and their relationship as it regards that aim is very good. However, that is the full extent of their personal involvement and no romantic dynamic exists between the two. Moreover, Erykah has no plans to marry or have any sort of courtship with the D.O.C. Ms. Badu has no plans to allow a reality show to be filmed in her private Dallas residence or to include any of her children in the filming...The D.O.C.'s comments were either taken out of context, improperly interpreted, or reflective of his now, not-so-secret desires. Whatever the case, Erykah wishes D.O.C. well both spiritually and professionally.

In a subsequent email to me, Levatino further decried D.O.C. for "giving false statements and publically describing where she lives - that was fucked up." (My story quotes D.O.C. saying that she lives in a "beautiful house right off of a really nice body of water," and Freedman identified the expanse as White Rock Lake in the Observer's reprint because, well, it's the only lake in Dallas proper.)


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Kkhflyfish
Kkhflyfish

yea   i gotta agree with a lot of the comments below....u blame her for UR printing possible misinformation?  well she wont give me an interview so ill just write whatever?  so she is basically punished for not wanting every detail of her life all over the media like some kind of media whore kardashian or something.  i was a journalism major, love to write, and now am a copy editor.  between being in this age of being in everyones personal business, down to the most minute "who cares" details....and all these "bloggers" etc that think they are journalists now but can barely form a sentence.....well im sort of glad i didnt become a journalist proper.  leave erykah alone.  let there be ONE star out there who doesnt have to tweet every time they wipe their ass.

Jody Moore
Jody Moore

Just wanted to add that as a writer I would expect more story from other writers, I would rather know about her personal growth and reason for writing the music she does, than hear the gossip about her love life. A real journalist seeks information that can reach people in a way that touches them. What lesson or growth is there from reporting on someones love life. I say grow as a writer andl move into more interesting topics!

Jody Moore
Jody Moore

I think blaming E.B for why the story didnt get written ,so her fans can know a bunch about her personal life is BS. What right does anyone have to that private info. I think she is smart for protecting herself and her kids from the media hype. And it is fucked up to put some shit in there that would elude to where she lives. This is why she should be respected not criticized!! Love ya Badu~*~

Chip Whitley
Chip Whitley

So...basically, the whole 2nd page of this article is about how LAweekly just opened the floodgates for stalkers to track down Ms. Badu, but it's not their fault.

Guest
Guest

Ben, you're personally responsible and definitely wrong on this. Badu is not "partially to blame". She has zero obligation to speak with you or anyone else about her private life. Zero.

Tlh44
Tlh44

Wow, as a fellow journalist I have to say that it is YOUR responsibility to find out the truth before publishing. Insisting that a subject 'must' interview with you in order for you to produce a balanced, non-disparaging, or fair article is egocentric at best and unethical/threatening at worst. I suppose that's why you work for the LA weekly and not the LA Times (shoulder shrug). 

West Coast Sound
West Coast Sound

It's far from clear what the "truth" here is. And how, exactly, could I have found it out without talking to Badu? (shoulder lean) 

music_lover
music_lover

Journalism 101...It's called research, sir.

If one can't confirm details, how about NOT including such details in the article...unless of course the aim of desire to include such details is not to be true to the subject matter, as much as it is to take some pot shots at Badu and her personal choices (which your comments in the above and the article reek of).

I choose to read newspaper articles for information. If I want editorial comments of a personal (and dare I say rude) nature, I'll read a blog.....or watch TMZ.

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Lar206
Lar206

damn the end is just the worst

GTFOH
GTFOH

Ben...wow...you are terrible!  "Also, Badu herself is partly to blame for all of this. Had she agreed to let me interview her in the first place, she could have cleared all of this up beforehand. It's a bit disingenuous to imply that we got something wrong (which we didn't, by the way), after she herself was the reason we couldn't get the whole story."  Out of RESPECT for her privacy, NO MEANS NO.  I am a HUGE Badu fan since 1996.  I really do not care about the details of her relationships with the fathers of her children.  Really, I am NOT!  I care about her creative ventures.  For you you as a journalist to BLAME her because she declined an interview with you is dangerous and irresponsible.  As a talent manager, I will add your name to my "HELL NO" list.

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