Syd the Kyd on Odd Future, Her Sexuality and Why She Hates the Word "Lesbian"

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In this week's cover story, we kick it with Odd Future members Syd the Kyd and Matt Martians, and talk with them about their new duo The Internet, whose album Purple Naked Ladies was recently released digitally. Syd also opens up about her sexuality and what it's like being in a group that uses "faggot" so much. (Tyler employs it over 200 times on Goblin.) Below are excerpts from our conversations that didn't make the story.

On the lack of out-of-the-closet gay urban artists:
Syd: "There's Alicia Keys, who's married to Swizz Beatz - we know that shit ain't real. You got Queen Latifah kissing Common in movies. Missy Elliott saying she don't wanna hang with bitches. You know she loves her some bitches."

On the word "lesbian":
"I hate the word 'lesbian.' Or 'pussy.' Or even like, 'thespian.' They're just awkward words! If you know me you might hear me say the word 'gay,' or something. I'd much rather say gay than lesbian. Not only that, but I don't know if I'd kick it with a group of lesbians anyway."

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Matt Martians and Syd the Kyd of The Internet
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On coming out via The Internet's "Cocaine" video:
Syd: "I decided to do it because I wish I had someone like that [an openly gay female artist] while I was coming up. People write on my Tumblr just thanking me for making the video, saying that I really inspire them, and they want to be like me. But I wasn't always this way, this comfortable with myself, and I remember what that was like. So I figure, fuck it. Everyday people aren't given this opportunity and I realize that. And I didn't at first. I thought I was just lucky to be along for the ride."

On getting asked that question:
Syd: "I put myself out there because I'm sick of people asking. I've been asked it so many times. It's annoying, it's like, you can't answer that yourself? And awkward because it's not like they're going up to the other guys in the group and asking if they're straight. Now I don't have to answer that question outright. Because I don't want to. It's not that I'm not proud of who I am."

So, um, is she gay?
Syd: "Do I look straight to you? Shit, you got your answer -- go watch 'Cocaine.'"

On good hair:
Syd: "I used to have long hair and get it done every two weeks, and it was never worth it to me. I would just walk out of the salon and put it in a ponytail anyway. I didn't want that shit in my face, blowing all in the wind, turn my head and slappin' me -- that shit is annoying! And it was even more annoying having to pay $50-60 every two weeks to get it look decent. Or to get my mom to let me walk out of the house. The first chance I got to cut my hair I did. It was a start to trying to gain some sort of freedom."

On high school:
Syd: "I was a loner, I spent the first half of high school alone. I was extremely depressed at Palisades, I won't say that switching school even helped that completely. But the black kids at Pali felt that since they were so far away from the 'hood they were better than everybody, and if you weren't on a sports team and you were black, you didn't have any friends. So when I quit the basketball team, suddenly everybody stopped being my friend. But it made me a stronger person, and I'ma be rich when I grow up and make them all regret it."


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Fabian Avalos
Fabian Avalos

She knows how to rock the crowd. She is great. My son is actually on his way to see them in Santa Ana right now.

Daveion053
Daveion053

Hay syd I'm a super odd future fan named devon. And a fan of u to. I just wanna say fuck all dem people. I like u cuz your cool as hell. Your personality is cool as hell as well. I'm only 16 and I can relate to your highschool story. things are the same for me. sometimes I wish I was in oddfuture cuz u guys have so much fun. I want that life, the fun life but u probably won't ever read this so ill end it here

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Anonymous
Anonymous

Just because a woman wears men clothing doesn't mean she wants to be a man I personally have always felt more comfortable in male clothes I don't want to be a man at all I hate that misconception not all of us are like that I do know a few who do feel like they are in the wrong bodies and they go through extreme measures to appear more masculine all studs or butches are not confused in that way most of know we are women and appreciate the fact that we are it's sad when society ties stigmas and stereotypes onto certain groups instead of asking questions and learning We all don't have to be the same a d we as people never will be and this is why so many hip hop artists hide there sexuality to avoid being outcasts combined with ridicule and hatred

Sinuzaki
Sinuzaki

Ok, um, 'pervursians'?  Right....

Asd
Asd

Ok here comes the good christian to come tell us all that if you are born and you are naturally (notice i used the word naturally) attracted to the same sex that you are some sort of unholy bastard. When will people stop all this religious bullshit about gays. God damn people. And whats wrong with being attracted to the same sex? Does it some how affect you to the point you have to hop on every page on the intenet that involves an openly gay individual that has a damn comment section on the page and voice your damn opinion? Whatever. Keep reading your bible written in a time where they didnt even know the earth was round. F*ck you.

Asd
Asd

I think we all just need to shut up. People get into so many arguments over the internet. Mostly comment sections. Listen to what Matt said "people like to be offended" just so they can have something to argue about. Why the f*ck do you care anyway? Its ONE DAMN INTERVIEW for gods sake. Syd wasnt trying to stir up sh*t. And really, do you really think she gives a f*ck about what you people are saying. You people are missing the point. It was about Syd, not this whole "whether gay is right or not" and "the current generation of gays being crazy". My final advice-- think about what you are going to say and if it might start a nonsense internet comment section argument, dont say it. Damn im f*cking 15 and i can handle myself better than most of you grown adults.

Hgvjbkn
Hgvjbkn

I don't think being humble is the issue...they come off as imbeciles as does most of Odd Future.

effyouu
effyouu

a few words of wisdom for the homophobes: GO FUCK YOURSELF. thanks.

Reader
Reader

As I was reading some of these comments all I could think was.. wow. How many humble artists do you know of that are extremely successful? Even Beyonce isn't humble. Ever heard the song "Diva"? In the hip hop and rap and even pop (just a lil) industries being humble doesn't get you to the top.  

Janikeewalker
Janikeewalker

Gay means happy, ain't a damn thing happy about homosexuality. Homosexuality is about lust. God didn't make no mistake, people need to wake up to this Sodom and Gomorrah bs, satan is crafty, he uses the same damn thing over and over and over again to win souls for his use, and this young LADY is one of those souls.

Pnsigma2
Pnsigma2

everyone who commented on the gay factor of the story, you guys are ridiculous! a persons sexual orientation shouldn't dictate whether you listen to someones music at all. half of the music made today is samples that were made from homosexual artists. Wiz Khalifa's Phone Numbers song is the sample from Queen's- We are the champion! you think wiz cared about the lead singer being gay? No the music speaks for itself. Let the homosexuality thing be in the past as it should be. If people want to be gay let them be. They are people just like you and me. 

Agrippa
Agrippa

I love you Odd Future and power to you Syd!

Joycetitiana
Joycetitiana

I'm not gay, but I have the most upright respect for Syd ! She doesn't have to explain herself by words but by action she awesome is fucking

@Leaking_Tweets
@Leaking_Tweets

People jump to conclusions about people being gay. I didn't find her video cocaine any differnt than a straight video with bitches shaking their ass. I like syd's music, & i'll accept her as a fucking person. If you don't fucking like her why comment on this shit? No one gives a cows fucking ass. But if you dont have haters your doing something wrong right? Im bisexual, so i feel where shes coming from. Love you syd <3

Jeri Fleming
Jeri Fleming

I guess my question is, where is the actual article if these where excerpts for the conversation that did not make it into the article?

Syd is great, more than great.  I am 33, BF, mother. She is a trailblazer for the young LBGT adults growing up in today's society and cultural changes which I've experienced as a product of the "MTV Generation."  Lot's not forget in black homes Prince was raunchy and perverted, but my parents owed it and played song's including the full length version of "Darling Nikki", but tried to ban me from White Snake, ZZ Topp, and Twisted Sister. 

The ironic part is they would force me to go to Baptist church and be screamed at from the pulpit that homosexuality is wrong and parents should beat their children to make them conform to heterosexual partnerships.  I did not agree with that as a kid and was always uncomfortable as I sat there.  Does that mean I a gay? No, but excepting for the next person and the lifestyle which he or she chooses.  That was not acceptable choices especially in black homes or during the emergence of Yo MTV Raps, which was daring giving urban blacks a forum to release music, could you image any rapper at the time male or female attempt to take a platform for homosexuality?   

Syd should not be the spokes person for any one whether gay or straight.  I admire her for standing her ground, living her reality and life comfortable in her skin at such a young age.  The stigma of homosexualty of great voices in music seemed nearly mute when I grew up.  Maybe a song or two by K.D. Lang  or Meshell Ndegeocello but never supported.  Also, never would they openly sing lyrics to a female or "gurrl".  That was the first that caught me of guard, not in a bad way, but just proud as an excepting BF, Veteran who served with many LBGT friends who often indulged in destructive behavior because they had to hide or risk being Dishonorably Discharged. Syd makes it okay to just live.  A breath of fresh air. 

Much love coming to you from Atlanta.  Go be rich, because college and student loan debt in today's economy is a joke for any 20 something urban black adult who has the talent, ambitious and support of family to be a working musician traveling the world how can you not be supportive of her.  Or OFWGKTA.  

Many people supported LeBron coming out of high school, and Nike payed him of much before he even bounced a ball for the NBA.   Continue to make great music.  Mamma is a huge fan, but I do not listen any OF in front of my 8 y/o son, save it for working out, or driving to work. (lol)

 

Djchic
Djchic

o my fucking god fuck all these negative comments. syd said on her tumblr that the interviewer was making it seem like she was sayin shit that she wasnt sayin. syd is fuckin talented and isnt ignorant she was just irritated and yall needa hop of her dick shes young and shes livin her life doin what the fcuk she wanna do so shut the fuck up

DUMBAZZIVAN
DUMBAZZIVAN

Big ups to the gays but Honestly I think sum ppl claim gay because they feel its Easier. which Is a slap in the face to all who fought for the rites gays have today! oan Syd the Kyd Lesbian is the word that descibes a woman who dresses and acts like a Man......ISNT THAT WHAT U ARE!!!!1

NancyOC
NancyOC

No offense, but do you think it is fair to force everyone to accept your poor spelling abilities and excessive use of exclamation marks. The word is spelled perversions. I am just saying.

Ayanna
Ayanna

Fuck everybody that don't like this she is fucking awesome to come out and say this and I'm not gay I like sick but fuck wherever don't like this

Dee
Dee

Syd sounds to me that she is very unhappy and unsure of herself, she’s trying to be someone she not and I believe she’s still trying to find herself.  What she needs to do is go to God. And as for Martians, what in world is he/she talking about FYI McDonald’s is known for their burgers or made from beef which comes from a cow and not a pig. OMG!! I think they both need to check themselves.

Cc
Cc

keep your crusading down, please. being a christian, i find it incredibly annoying and ignorant for people to be pushing their religion around onto others. people need their space. you gotta check yourself on that one.

Aisha
Aisha

Ya'll are just to damn bold with it!  NO class!  No care about the example and confusion you are causing little children....to know as a woman you have a menstal cycle and then pretend you're a boy while you are bleeding its just sick

Aisha
Aisha

What you do behind your closed doors is your business...Just like what we do behind is our business!  But to walk around pretending your are not the sex that the Creator made you is just disgraceful.  Its real insanity!  To see black women whom are still having a menstal cycle..walking talking and dressing as if they are really a man.....That is real mental disorder.......and its confusionand it confusion to our children.....who you have sex with is one thingbut to have that kind of duality in front of our children is just sick! Black folks have enough problems....now we have to look at black men on TV walking around with pumps one and leggings and make-up its the Devil!  I am dont have anything to do with who you sex with in the privacy of your home but to parade around and being flaming its fitna (evil) its confusion and the ALMIGHTY CREATOR IS NOT THE AUTHOR OF CONFUSIONI DONT HATE YOU AT ALL.....AS A MATTER OF FACT ITS JUST THE OPPOSITE!

FrankenFan
FrankenFan

Sydney Crosby really looks different out of uniform.

Lovegummiebears
Lovegummiebears

Lets move along and be for real SYD is not going to be accepted by the hip hop community, Being gay is kind of like a white person using the  n word ..... Remember kreyshawn... It wont happen and whos going to buy that shit besides the white kids...

Aisha
Aisha

And all those getting F'd in butt on a regular!  Its just too perverse! 

FBG
FBG

The only thing more funny than that stupid Aisha bitch calling the LGBT community perverse is all of the anti-Syd comments. If you think she's stupid or wrong, why take time to comment? If a member of the LGBT community isn't directly coming on to you, shut the hell up and let them live.

As for you, Aisha. your comments make you seem like a bitter busted weave wearing EBT card swiping hood booger ass hoochie who was probably turned down by a gay woman. How can someone living their lives without worrying about what you think be perverse? If you want to help the community, change your ghetto penny candy tricking ass name to Sharon...or Carol. good day. stupid bitch. You sound like you're living vicariously through a women who is attracted to women yet you're bitted because you can't catch one. An attitude make over might help.

Aisha
Aisha

F you!

Cc
Cc

hahahaaahhaha the fuck is wrong wiht you

Aisha
Aisha

Why comment!  thats what the hell this forum is for!  stupid!

Aisha
Aisha

spoken like one taking penis up the butt!

Aisha
Aisha

boys who get F'd in the butt always get mad!

Aisha
Aisha

FBG get the F outta here!  I have had locks for last 10+ years!  You sound foolish! Or is it you're one of the "gays"!???   You're the bitch! 

Dn
Dn

this was an extremely useless interview..... nothing about music just bs.... when will artists stop praising themselves for being themselves?  ugh.... make music and be humble and if you dont have anything intelligent to say then dont bother givin interviews. 

FBG
FBG

maybe when people stop trying to make them feel subhuman for being themselves.

Rell868
Rell868

fuck dis dumb dirty ass bitch mane nobody give a fuck about her or her lgbt community dey aint worth shit dis shit is a waist of time just like all dem gays n lebsos lives dey just needa kill dey self

Esinedelocin
Esinedelocin

but you read it tho.....ooooooooooooooook

Cc
Cc

hahahha who are you man? like she said, if you're offended by her, then get the fuck out. there's no need to hate. you haters gotta chill

donthate
donthate

god what a bunch of ignorant comments. All you see--if you can see--in this article is a person who is being themself and not apologizing for it. More power to her and to people to see and accept people for who they are! Realize how brave it is for someone to be themselves in the face of society who says they shouldn't, and they should act this way and that in order for ppl to feel comfortable. To hell with that lol.

FBG
FBG

my sentiments exactly.

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